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Love Test

What is your love style? Discover it!

If you are dating someone, or you have dated someone in the past, this test will help you know your love style.

Please reply to these questions thinking on your present or past date experience.

In the first place, please tell us your age and sex.


My partner and I have the right physical “chemistry” between us.

I feel that my partner and I were meant for each other.

My partner and I really understand each other.

My partner fits my ideal standards of physical beauty/handsomeness.

I believe that what my partner doesn’t know about me won’t hurt him/her.

I have sometimes had to keep my partner from finding out about other partners.

My partner would get upset if he/she knew of some of the things I’ve done with other partners.

I enjoy playing the “game of love” with my partner and a number of other partners.

Our love is the best kind because it grew out of a long friendship.

Our friendship merged gradually into love over time.

Our love is really a deep friendship, not a mysterious, mystical emotion.

Our love relationship is the most satisfying because it developed from a good friendship.

A main consideration in choosing my partner was how he/she would reflect on my family.

An important factor in choosing my partner was whether or not he/she would be a good parent.

One consideration in choosing my partner was how he/she would reflect on my career.

Before getting very involved with my partner, I tried to figure out how compatible his/her hereditary background would be with mine in case we ever had children.

When my partner doesn’t pay attention to me, I feel sick all over.

Since I’ve been in love with my partner, I’ve had trouble concentrating on anything else.

I cannot relax if I suspect that my partner is with someone else.

If my partner ignores me for a while, I sometimes do stupid things to try to get his/her attention back.

I would rather suffer myself than let my partner suffer.

I cannot be happy unless I place my partner’s happiness before my own.

I am usually willing to sacrifice my own wishes to let my partner achieve his/hers.

I would endure all things for the sake of my partner.

What is your religion or faith?

How often do you attend your religious temple?

What is your parents’ socio economic status?

What is the highest level of education you have completed?

What is the marital status of your parents?

How many romantic relationships (boyfriends/girlfriends,...) have you had?

Describe your overall satisfaction with these romantic relationships (excluding your current relationship if you have one)

Do you believe “love forever” is possible?

Do you think it is good to wait until marriage before having sexual relations?

Results: These are your scores in each of the love styles.
Adapted from: Hendrick, C., Hendrick, S. S., & Dicke, A. (1998). The love attitudes scale: Short form. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 15(2), 147-159. With permission of the authors.
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Studies show that Eros and Agape styles are associated with higher degrees of relationship satisfaction. On the contrary, Ludus and Mania are associated with a lower satisfaction. In addition to agape and Eros, we advise you to improve friendship within your relationship (Storge). The Pragma style has positive and negative issues. It is normal to consider whether the other will fit with you and your family, and whether he/she will be a good father/mother. But other aspects of this style may be less important to consider.

Sources: Fricker, J., Moore, S. (2002). Relationship satisfaction: the role of love styles and attachment styles. Current Research in Social Psychology, 7, 182-204. Morrow, G. D., Clark, E. M., Brock, K. F. (1995). Individual and Partner Love styles: Implications for the Quality of Romantic Relationships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 12, 363-387.